As the oldest of 3 siblings I have the power and nature to become their role model. I have been through a lot of challenges that I've battled and somehow defeated. Through all of the battles, I still fought through all of the adversity and the challenges. It's because I found the right role models and mentors to look up to.
Always remember that you are in charge of your feelings, beliefs, and actions. And you teach others how to behave toward you. While you cannot change other people, you can influence them through your own behaviors and actions. By being a living role model of what you want to receive from others, you create more of what you want in your life.
Love you guys, and DO NOT ever forget to keep enjoying this beautiful journey that we call, "life."