If you don't like how you're life is looking, you're the director, you're the producer, you're the star, you wrote the script! So if it's a hit you produced it, if it's a flop you produced it! Take ownership of it! Go back to the drawing board and re-write the script! You wrote it, so you have the power to change it! Before you leave this planet, make sure your life is a movie that people will want to watch.